love of a friend

Do you have friends?

I Have lots of friends, but do you love them?

when I was in high school I am happy because I have amny friends but I realized I don't love them that much and sometimes I don't care about them until one day, I had a problem and I needed someone to talk to, but no one is there to help me, I was so saddened at that time and I realized that I have ignored them especially at the time that time that they needed me. I came to my senses that friends are very important. I have realized that I have to love them and care for them so that they will also treat you well as a friend we should not turn our backs from them. As what the golden rule says "do unto to others what you want others do unto you and do not do unto others what you don't want others do unto you.

But if you are a real friend , you will no longer expect the paybacks your friends will give to you. I also realized that friends are important and valuable, it is very comforting to have friends that are trustworthy and real. From all of that realization I tend to become, caring, loving and real person to them. And now I am happy because I can say I have friends that are worth trusting for, caring and loving, they helped me whenever I needed their help, they give me advices that are very good and godly, every time I am with them I feel that I do not need any boyfriend at all just to make me happy because I am already happy having them in my life and they make my life colorful and lively.


But I cannot deny the fact that sometimes we misunderstood each other. But I am still happy because those problems we'd face, led us to a better bond and better friendship,and I would say we became best of friends. I also believe that friends are better than lovers because sometimes a boyfriend can be easily gone but friends last forever till the end of times. While writing this blog, I imagined and reminisced the memories we had and I am really treasuring all those because they are important to me and valuable in my life. And I love them.


If you have friends, love them,care about them, and value them.:-)

LOVE

LOVE

1 Corinthians 13


Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

God's love

God's unconditional love is very amazing and indescribable, God's love is very fascinating and really amazing, late this morning I went to the jail just to visit a friend that was alleged by murder I was really sad about the news. As I talked to my friend inside the jail I have noticed that there were 4 of them inside and looking at them I didn't hesitate to talk to them, one by one I interviewed their individual offenses and I have known that the three of them were once a Christian but almost of them were lost to the right track, indeed the gate for the kingdom of God is very narrow. As I interview them they all told me that they regretted what they have done.   And if they were given a second time around they will really do what is right.

In relation t God's unconditional love it refers to the love of Christ that is very unconditional which doesn't require any conditions. This simply means that God is a forgiving and merciful God.God's unconditional love is seldom seen by other people. God's love is the ideal love everybody wants to have.

Talking with the prisoners, I have reminded them that God is  a forgiving God that is ready to pull us back from the depth of our sorrow and darkness. Although we are sinners by nature, God will still accept us as long as we ask forgiveness and help from him.

 

Why is it so difficult to wait? why do teenagers usually act as if love is a competition or a race? is it really hard to wait?.

      Many  have been influenced most especially teenagers by the surroundings and many other factors in the society and one of the best example is the media. Media had greatly influenced people's point of views and beliefs. As you can noticed this days, the social media has never been conservative about love scenes and any other daring scenes that are not supposed to be displayed and tries to view things that are bad to be viewed as acceptable in which should not be . In a way, they persuade people to do it also. I do not wonder why we have teens having early dating or early relationship because this is what they see in the television. Yet teens tend to forget the values that the Lord wanted for them.
   
     For the teens reading this I want you to remember that love can wait, and please  do not be easily influenced by what you can see in people around you especially if it is wrong and which contradicts to your morale. think of it a million times.
     Love takes time, love is not a race and love truly waits.

wOrking Out whiLe waiting Out

I would like to share this small part of true love waits about waiting by Rhea Paredes and I really like this part :-)

waiting for the sake of true love does not only mean sitting around and growing jelly bellies and love handles. Our goal is Not to condition ourselves to become unfeeling, never been kissed humanoids. Waiting is the time when we an exercise our love for God and for the people who deserve it. We can develop our character and learn more about our God given sexuality. It is a time when we can build each other up to become mighty men and women of God. So get up from the couch and throw away all those junk pleasures the world offers. We're only going to intake pure joy and train ourselves for purity.

WaIting

While WaITing....



Being single is good, I love the feeling of being single because nobody's there to always get an eye on you, don't you know that being single will help us cultivate talents and develop character and at the same time  can give time on ourselves? it is the time where we can focused on our self, family and most especially God. it is also a good time to now yourself better.

Perfect LoVE

                                                        The PErfect LOvE
 It's true that I am weak
Sometimes my heart wants to quit
Sometimes I insist that I do not exist
this life has so much twist


the lad's benevolence turned my heart into valiant
 his goodness and kindness shown upon me
convinced my innocent heart

sadly, the amenity of his intentions were all untrue
were all untrue
he tore my heart into pieces left my heart broken-uncured

my heart became vulnerable and fragile
and pain seems to last forever
I long to alleviate the pain, but how?

how can a stupid lad break my heart?
who is he?
how can he fooled someones heart and mind?


but now I stand with great valor and audacity
I promise that I will never be fooled nor be hurt
I have dignity and I am worthy
and no one can treat me like a trash
they can never overrule me nor be a superior

but I realized that there is only that one guy that who will never ever hurt me
but will give me perfect love that every human being longs for
a love that is unconditional and a love that is forever
and this is JESUS and He is everything I need. . .<3 <3 <3

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMIY__Ydrq8