Reasons to wait
There are so many reasons why we have to wait for God's right time. Many bad things might happen if we choose to follow our own selfish wills rather than His. There are living testimonies of people who chose to follow their own wants and some of them ended broken and emotionally distracted and many of them wished if they can still turn back time or a time machine that controls time but sad to say it is extremely impossible but the only thing we can do is to prevent from arriving to that unimaginable situation, so if you think your path is going somewhere risky and would harm you, think about it a million times because you may never know the path your going would be the one to bring you down. We should remember that love is not in a hurry but it takes time. As you can see teens having early dating turned to be miserable, many young women have been fooled by the lads, maybe because of innocence and curiosity of having a relationship. So to be able for us to make our parents and God happy about us, and to be away from disastrous situations, we should reflect on the things we will do whether those things are healthy for us physically, emotionally and spiritually. We should learn how to wait.
Sunday, September 30, 2012
Friday, September 28, 2012
Fixing a broken heart
How can you fix a broken heart????? have you ever experience having a heart break??? its almost a year since we broke up with my ex boyfriend. I was so down, frustrated, disappointed and and think I felt all the saddest emotions in this world. I couldn't imagine him being with someone else. During that time I was so vulnerable and very fragile. But now I realized that everything has a reason. But for me to be able to be well emotionally, I did many many things just to keep myself busy so that I can no longer think of him and thank God I can now say I moved on.
What are the things that helped me fix my heart?
After all the emotional and crying moments, I asked myself "why am I crying"? that question made me realized that I have been a looser and a fool. I have not realized that I already spent all my tears, heart, and emotions thinking about him yet he is just enjoying with his new girl.... well I came to my senses that I am the looser then, so from that realization I did my best to stand up and to be strong. I always think that he is not worth it and most especially not worth it to be cried upon. He has no right at all to make me cry. And who is he? well he is just a boy, and there are still thousands of boys around the world. We may never know the right person for us But only God does. And also one of the strategy I did is seeking of God's word and there you will realized that there are so much better than your ex boyfriend. God's words are very refreshing, comforting and a great encouragement for us. And because I am really desperate to be really healed and well I read books about true love waits and I tell you it is very effective. From that reading I have learned that I must maintain my standards and my self worth because nobody can give it rather than yourself . As woman in this world we must know that we are important and BOYS don't have the right to hurt us. We deserve respect, and we deserve love.
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
True love
Why does true love wait?
Many young couple would say " were in love, so what are we waiting for?. Many young people nowadays whether non Christians and even non Christians struggle about this immoral issue. Sad to say premarital sex became unstoppable problem to almost teens and unmarried couples. In fact this can proves even in the present situation we are in. And this phenomenon is greatly rampant in this generation. You can see now a days many massive women have been victimized by unwanted pregnancies and even incurable diseases but not only women but also men as well. I feel sorry for them because of just one mistake but I believe every situations in our life has a purpose. And I also believe that everybody deserves a second chance.
According to the book I have read about true love waits it was said that Sexual pressures on kids are all time high. their friends, peers, and many of their adult role models are succumbing to the pressures of a sex crazed society that mocks biblical abstinence as puritanical and irrelevant. Surrounded by a permissive society that accepts and even glorifies casual sex, students today are wrestling with sexual decisions that previous generations never had to face. Many for the kids, those decisions are made with little thought about the consequence. As what I have noticed now a days young people in this generation tend to ignore traditional and biblical beliefs and tend to compromise to the ways of the world.
Many struggle about dealing with physical desires even some Christians do. Well we are human in nature and commits sin. We are given the gift of freedom however freedom doesn't excuse us from sin. That is why life here on earth is called the battle field of good and evil.Christian youth accept the Bible's authority on many issues but struggle when it comes to morality and lifestyle choices. They are aware that the biblical places clear limitations on sexual activity, but they consider these limitations merely old fashioned, overly strict rules for a different time and place, but they have a hard time accepting that God would intend the same precepts to apply to them in the first century.As people in this society, as friends to our peers, and a sister/brother to our siblings we should let them understand the reason surrounding God's rules so that they wouldn't arrive to the greater failures of their lives. But behind every negative commandment in the Bible there are two loving motivation, one is to protect us, and the other is to provide us.
I have even friends, acquaintances, and even classmates who got pregnant at early age and sad to say it somehow affected their lives and I am afraid it would happen to someone close to me. So if you feared those consequences, beware and learn how to wait for the right time.This consequence could be one of the most important reasons why abstinence of premarital sex is important. Having premarital sex could destroy oneself emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It may greatly affect our lives in general. So if you are in a relationship right now, you must better maintain the standards among yourself and remain the respect to yourself and to your partner. Don't be afraid if your boyfriend will threaten you to have break up ,because you won't allow to have sex with him. Just remember that if he truly loves you he will patiently wait until the wedding day.And if he's not, then he's not worth waiting for and he is not the one God intended you to have. Even though it hurts ,but sooner or later you will realize that your decision wasn't a mistake at all. God's promises are true:-) And even if you already given your virginity to someone else, God is willing to forgive you and restore you though not literally but in the eyes of God you are now pure. Reserved it until the day of your wedding day. But for you, not to be astray again, continue to seek His words then you will find peace in your heart and love from above.:-)
Many young couple would say " were in love, so what are we waiting for?. Many young people nowadays whether non Christians and even non Christians struggle about this immoral issue. Sad to say premarital sex became unstoppable problem to almost teens and unmarried couples. In fact this can proves even in the present situation we are in. And this phenomenon is greatly rampant in this generation. You can see now a days many massive women have been victimized by unwanted pregnancies and even incurable diseases but not only women but also men as well. I feel sorry for them because of just one mistake but I believe every situations in our life has a purpose. And I also believe that everybody deserves a second chance.
According to the book I have read about true love waits it was said that Sexual pressures on kids are all time high. their friends, peers, and many of their adult role models are succumbing to the pressures of a sex crazed society that mocks biblical abstinence as puritanical and irrelevant. Surrounded by a permissive society that accepts and even glorifies casual sex, students today are wrestling with sexual decisions that previous generations never had to face. Many for the kids, those decisions are made with little thought about the consequence. As what I have noticed now a days young people in this generation tend to ignore traditional and biblical beliefs and tend to compromise to the ways of the world.
Many struggle about dealing with physical desires even some Christians do. Well we are human in nature and commits sin. We are given the gift of freedom however freedom doesn't excuse us from sin. That is why life here on earth is called the battle field of good and evil.Christian youth accept the Bible's authority on many issues but struggle when it comes to morality and lifestyle choices. They are aware that the biblical places clear limitations on sexual activity, but they consider these limitations merely old fashioned, overly strict rules for a different time and place, but they have a hard time accepting that God would intend the same precepts to apply to them in the first century.As people in this society, as friends to our peers, and a sister/brother to our siblings we should let them understand the reason surrounding God's rules so that they wouldn't arrive to the greater failures of their lives. But behind every negative commandment in the Bible there are two loving motivation, one is to protect us, and the other is to provide us.
I have even friends, acquaintances, and even classmates who got pregnant at early age and sad to say it somehow affected their lives and I am afraid it would happen to someone close to me. So if you feared those consequences, beware and learn how to wait for the right time.This consequence could be one of the most important reasons why abstinence of premarital sex is important. Having premarital sex could destroy oneself emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It may greatly affect our lives in general. So if you are in a relationship right now, you must better maintain the standards among yourself and remain the respect to yourself and to your partner. Don't be afraid if your boyfriend will threaten you to have break up ,because you won't allow to have sex with him. Just remember that if he truly loves you he will patiently wait until the wedding day.And if he's not, then he's not worth waiting for and he is not the one God intended you to have. Even though it hurts ,but sooner or later you will realize that your decision wasn't a mistake at all. God's promises are true:-) And even if you already given your virginity to someone else, God is willing to forgive you and restore you though not literally but in the eyes of God you are now pure. Reserved it until the day of your wedding day. But for you, not to be astray again, continue to seek His words then you will find peace in your heart and love from above.:-)
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