Many young couple would say " were in love, so what are we waiting for?. Many young people nowadays whether non Christians and even non Christians struggle about this immoral issue. Sad to say premarital sex became unstoppable problem to almost teens and unmarried couples. In fact this can proves even in the present situation we are in. And this phenomenon is greatly rampant in this generation. You can see now a days many massive women have been victimized by unwanted pregnancies and even incurable diseases but not only women but also men as well. I feel sorry for them because of just one mistake but I believe every situations in our life has a purpose. And I also believe that everybody deserves a second chance.
According to the book I have read about true love waits it was said that Sexual pressures on kids are all time high. their friends, peers, and many of their adult role models are succumbing to the pressures of a sex crazed society that mocks biblical abstinence as puritanical and irrelevant. Surrounded by a permissive society that accepts and even glorifies casual sex, students today are wrestling with sexual decisions that previous generations never had to face. Many for the kids, those decisions are made with little thought about the consequence. As what I have noticed now a days young people in this generation tend to ignore traditional and biblical beliefs and tend to compromise to the ways of the world.
Many struggle about dealing with physical desires even some Christians do. Well we are human in nature and commits sin. We are given the gift of freedom however freedom doesn't excuse us from sin. That is why life here on earth is called the battle field of good and evil.Christian youth accept the Bible's authority on many issues but struggle when it comes to morality and lifestyle choices. They are aware that the biblical places clear limitations on sexual activity, but they consider these limitations merely old fashioned, overly strict rules for a different time and place, but they have a hard time accepting that God would intend the same precepts to apply to them in the first century.As people in this society, as friends to our peers, and a sister/brother to our siblings we should let them understand the reason surrounding God's rules so that they wouldn't arrive to the greater failures of their lives. But behind every negative commandment in the Bible there are two loving motivation, one is to protect us, and the other is to provide us.
I have even friends, acquaintances, and even classmates who got pregnant at early age and sad to say it somehow affected their lives and I am afraid it would happen to someone close to me. So if you feared those consequences, beware and learn how to wait for the right time.This consequence could be one of the most important reasons why abstinence of premarital sex is important. Having premarital sex could destroy oneself emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It may greatly affect our lives in general. So if you are in a relationship right now, you must better maintain the standards among yourself and remain the respect to yourself and to your partner. Don't be afraid if your boyfriend will threaten you to have break up ,because you won't allow to have sex with him. Just remember that if he truly loves you he will patiently wait until the wedding day.And if he's not, then he's not worth waiting for and he is not the one God intended you to have. Even though it hurts ,but sooner or later you will realize that your decision wasn't a mistake at all. God's promises are true:-) And even if you already given your virginity to someone else, God is willing to forgive you and restore you though not literally but in the eyes of God you are now pure. Reserved it until the day of your wedding day. But for you, not to be astray again, continue to seek His words then you will find peace in your heart and love from above.:-)
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